The difficulty in understanding what others are saying can cause great confusion. They may see or hear a person talking, and although every word has been heard, they fail to grasp the meaning of what has been said.
A child with autism may be perfectly happy one moment, but all of a sudden become sad or angry, or even have a tantrum. This may be because they can't tell people what they want. Taking the wrong turning, or a certain noise could trigger this reaction, or simply parking the car on the wrong side of the road.
The fact is, it could be any number of things,
For the parent or carer of the autistic person finding the cause can be a long slow process. (If not at times impossible)
A lack of communication can lead to frustration and confusion both for the autistic person and for the people around them.
Many people with autism have ritualistic behaviour, insistence on routine and sameness.
An autistic person may be perfectly happy to go to a familiar shop, but take them to a different shop to buy the same item, and they may become frustrated, withdrawn, even fearful.
An unfamiliar space or routine no longer feels safe or secure. The autistic person can find it very difficult to relate from one situation to another.
Reality to an autistic person can be confusing, a mass of events, people, places, sounds and sights. With no clear boundaries, or meaning to anything.
It is important to remember that every person with autism is an individual. It is a myth that all autistic people act the same. They simply don't. (Rainman was a film!)
They do however share problems in three key areas.
Communication, Social Interaction And Imagination.
Autism is often referred to as a "spectrum disorder," meaning that the symptoms and characteristics of autism can present themselves in a variety of combinations, ranging from extremely mild to quite severe.
People with autism can often have accompanying learning disabilities but everyone with the condition shares a difficulty in making sense of the world.